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Get your clothes off and board the bus. Come on, don’t be shy. We’re going for a trip around the USA to find the best of the gay male nudist resorts; or at least the top ranking sites that talk about them. Let’s see what we can find.

First stop is at cybernude.com/links/GayNaturism.htm at the top of the list after searching for ‘gay nudists USA’. These guys sound like they know what they are talking about. Or maybe not – their top two resorts’ links didn’t lead anywhere. But I did find gaynaturists.org there, which listed all kinds of interesting pages including one for events and gatherings. So, next stop…

Pocono Mountains, Pennsylvania for the annual Gay Naturists International (GNI) gathering. On offer here are education, entertainment, relaxation, a lake, pools, workout rooms, sports and woodland walks. Sounds idyllic. But hurry- the event takes place between August 20^th and 29^th . If you’re too late book for next year, or try GNI’s Naked Getaway at Key West. (Back on the bus and off we go.) This is a quick getaway weekend and will run between December 5^th to 7^th . Last year it was perfect weather and over 100 guys showed up, sounds like fun. They use the Hobart and Equator resorts for this event and promise you pools, gardens, outdoor Jacuzzis and sundecks and, presumably lots of freely naked guys of various ages and types with not a care in the world. In 2007 this getaway coincided with the ‘Bone Island bare it all weekend’ at Key West. There are no details of a 2008 Bone Island (suspicious name) weekend as yet but keep an eye on wildfyresociety.org for upcoming news.

And while we are on their site let’s see what other events and places are listed: Fort Lauderdale Eagle for… oh, too late, just missed that event. The Haulover Sun Club offers SCUBA diving trips, (sffb.com events page) though presumably you will have to wear something to do that; and it looks like a mixed event. There is naked Yoga to be had in Miami, a Leather weekend at Camp Mars, two hours drive northwest of Fort Lauderdale, in October, (presumably it’s possible to be naked and wearing leather at the same time) and a gathering, also in October, at Lake Como.

But what about resorts? So far it looks like you head south and attend a gathering or event. Very far south in some cases as there are nudist cruises and holidays to Mexico and Costa Rica available and I fear we are straying from the gay only path. Back to Gaynaturists.org for some free advice…

And a list of nudist beaches in the USA arranged alphabetically with 56 in the A to M list, 33 in the N to W’s and a separate list for New England for some reason, which has five. Well, the good news is that it seems that as long as a state has a coastline you can strip off on it. 22 states are listed at this handy page and, though they may not be permanent resorts as such, you are allowed to go clothes-free anywhere from Hawaii with eight beaches listed, to New York with six. Unsurprisingly there are no beaches listed for Alaska. Check out the pages as they were the best information source that I found, start with: http://honeymoons.about.com/od/nudebeachesusa/Nude_Beaches_in_the_USA_Where_to_Find_Nude_Beaches_in_United_States.htm then pick your favorite state and you will find some links take you to just beaches while others also list resorts.

Also, Join us for Hippie Hollow where you can enjoy the beauty of Lake Travis in Austin for the Splash weekend coming up Labor Day Weekend.

Some of the best club music comes from Europe.  I am glad to be going there this weekend.  Instinct ran this Music for a Eurodance party and this was the countdown I meant to put up the other day instead of the Dance like a robot countdown.  This is still some of the best all-time club mixes.   One thing missing from this list is (Take Me Away) Into The Night by 4 Strings who by the way is bad ass live.  4 Strings is on the EuroDance compilation sold on Amazon.com.

You can also buy lots of these mixes on Masterbeat.com which by far the best gay dance site online where you can buy Britney to the latest from diva Kristine W.

1. Snap! - Rhythm is A Dancer
2. Captain Hollywood Project - More and More
3. Real McCoy - Another Night
4. Livin’ Joy - (I’m a) Dreamer
5. D:Ream - U R The Best Thing
6. Corona - (This is the) The Rhythm of The Night
7. Culture Beat - (Calling) Mr. Vain
8. 2 Unlimited - No Limit
9. Alex Party - Don’t Give Me Your Life
10. The Tamperer Featuring Maya - Feel It
11. Amber - This Is Your Night [Diva Alert!!]
12. Nicki French - Total Eclipse of the Heart
13. Ace of Base - Beautiful Life
14. Gina G. - Ooh Ahh… Just A Little Bit
15. Urban Cookie Collective - The Key, The Secret
16. Electronic - Disappointed
17. La Bouche - Sweet Dreams
18. Everything But The Girl - Missing (Todd Terry Remix)
19. Pet Shop Boys - Absolutely Fabulous
20. Real McCoy - Run Away

Actually, I am not sure what is so Euro about this list.  it sounds like my list of the all time favorite club anthems from the early 2000’s (some of them) and late 90’s.  Awesome list from Instinct.  Now lets go Masterbeat!

If you are a beach bum then you will love the cities we have been to this year so far and back in 2007. We hit up Puerto Vallarta last year and did the scene until we could not move anymore. We also checked out Pensacola, FL this year which was so much fun partying at Emerald City.

If you want to brave the pending Hurricane then head the Galveston this weekend or just wait until Labor Day and sit on our rock beach. It will surely bring enough rain for the big Labor Day Splash in Austin for Lake Travis to fill up some then get blitzed at the Splash party later that night with DJ Chris Cox.

Summer is quickly coming to and end so you better get out there and get that tan you said you were going to get since Spring. You know we will be planning New Years in just a month or so. Halloween is also just around the corner.

enjoy the heat!

You know… The stuff (one of the many) you saw Bryan doing on Queer as Folk in the clubs and in the baths.

What are poppers?
Poppers is actually the more common, street or slang name for various alkly nitrites; these are chemical compounds of structure R-ONO, for all you chemists out there, and the most popular forms for recreational use are amyl nitrate, butyl nitrate and isobutyl nitrate. (You can see why they’re simply called poppers!) You may be surprised to learn that these chemicals also appear in some over the counter air fresheners and video head cleaners; they were also used in the past, from 1875 and unsuccessfully, to treat angina and as an antidote to cyanide poisoning.

Why do people use them during sex?
Actually it’s not just during sex. They are popular on the dance floor too. People use them because you get an instant burst of dizzy energy for a short time. As Urban 75 says: “The rush kicks in immediately, and for a few moments you’ll feel like the bass drum has got inside your head, the lights have been turned up to a zillion watts and your heart is attempting a solo flight.” It’s a big, quick rush. Imagine an effect like that when your partner is going down on you or when you are taking his hard cock in your ass.

When did they come about?
For medicinal purposes they were first used in the late 19th century. As a recreational drug they first became popular around the early 1970’s, particularly among gay men. Since then their use has become widespread and they are freely available by mail order, in shops and at clubs. They tend to go by the name of ‘room odorizers’ so, if you see a row of small glass bottles in a sex shop calling themselves by this name you’ll know what they are.

Are poppers safe to use?
There are a few answers to this question and opinions vary. In the main they are not considered addictive though there have been stories of some guys not being able to have sex without them. Some people find them disorientating, they don’t like the smell and a regular side effect of sniffing them is a pounding headache immediately after and sometimes during the ‘rush’. As they open up blood vessels and increase heart rate they can be dangerous for anyone with a heart condition, high blood pressure, glaucoma and liver disease.

Therefore proceed with care and never take poppers if you’ve taken a Viagra (or similar).

It was thought, for a while, that poppers might be the cause of Kaposi’s sarcoma, or even AIDS itself, but that is now disproved. However, it does lower your inhibitions and therefore makes you more likely to think ‘what the hell’ and go for a sudden moment of madness, fucking before the condom is on. (It opens blood vessels remember, which will make your ass more susceptible to bleeding and infection.)

There is another danger too: Many years ago I was dancing in a club with a friend who, unbeknown to be, had dipped a cigarette in his bottle of poppers in order to inhale them through the filter. I just assumed he was looking for a light and lit his cigarette for him. Poppers are highly inflammable and the thing went up like a flamethrower. Luckily no one was hurt. But don’t smoke when using them, don’t drink them, don’t get them near your eyes and always put the lid on the bottle as soon as you have taken a sniff.

To answer the question: do poppers make sex better or are they to be avoided? They can make sex more intense, but only in short bursts of time. To use them or avoid them is a decision that only you can make.

I do have a funny story about a friend that had them in his car when he was in traveling. He got pulled over and the police were questioning him what they were. They found it strange he had this small odor-full bottle in his car. He for some reason told them too much information about how we use it for being able to "take it". I think the officers did not want to hear anymore after that or wished they would not have asked lol.

They are not illegal but it may be illegal to actually inhale them but you are free to purchase them of course under the name of video head cleaner or Room Odorisor. The more popular names of the products are The Dogs Bullocks, Liquid Gold, Bang Aroma, and Pure Gold. If you walk into a head shop to order do not say the word poppers but ask for Rush or Jungle Juice or Video Head Cleaner. Also, make sure if you do happen to sniff it by accident that you are aware you might have a headache from too much of it.

I could sit and watch videos for hours and not be turned on as much as this video did it for me.  Michelle Williams has delivered one of the hottest videos of the year with some HOT dancing.  Parts of the video remind me of the Madonna Hung Up performance when they pick her up and do lots of group moves.

Sadly, I do not think I have heard this song in the club (or maybe I was intoxicated at that point lol).  I have heard it on XM BPM and Sirius The Beat.  I noticed the video on LOGO The Click List where they play the top 10 videos it was at number 5.  The Perry Twins had a good video on LOGO also ranked at number 7.  LOGO is more of a Lesbian channel but you get the Gay stuff on there now and then =)

Anyway, here is the new video from Michelle Williams "We Break The Dawn".  I just love the choreography… its so good I can hear that lady from So You Think You Can Dance screaming up and down in the background!

If you are craving some robotic beats instinct magazine (instinctmagazine.com) recently listed some interesting picks under a top 20 list.  They entitled it "music for robots"

1. Visage - Fade to Grey
2. Felix Da Housecat & Miss Kittin - Madame Hollywood
3. Beastie Boys - Intergalactic
4. Hoku - Another Dumb Blonde
5. Kylie Minogue - Speakerphone
6. Woldorf - You’re my Disco
7. Robyn - Robotboy
8. Midnight Star - Freak-a-zoid
9. Kraftwork - Computer Love
10. Pet Shop Boys - Music for Boys
11. Johan Agebjorn - Spacer Women from Mars
12. Annie - Chewing Gum
13. Opus III - Fine Day (one of the best tunes ever)
14. Britney Spears - Pieces of Me
15. Cascada - many of their songs!
16. Daft Punk - Digital Love
17. Chris Brown - Forever
18. Aqua - Barbie Girl
19. Herbie Hancock - Rock It:Talk about MTV back in the early days… I thought this was Axel F that did this mix. Wait why is Axel F not on this list? You know the Beverly Hills Cop soundtrack theme I think it was called Harold Faltermeyer.
20. Ladytron - Seventeen

If we are looking at songs that have that electro feel then there are many Madonna, Pet Shop Boys, and Erasure songs that could be on the list.

There is this myth in the gay world that no man is truly straight. In some cultures (I’m thinking of Greek, Egyptian and other Arabic lands here and speaking from experience,) it’s quite acceptable to be bi-sexual. Sex with your mates, or an older guy, is for fun – girls are for marriage and having babies. But that’s really another story; the point is that some men are more up for it than others. After reading some ‘true life experiences’ on various gay story sites  gaystorycontent.com/club or manswords.com and many others, I put together a few ideas for getting your straight mate to ‘turn gay’.

Remember that he may not turn gay permanently. Many of the real instances that I’ve been told – where a straight dude lets another guy suck him off etc. – took place after a night of drinking. This is actually a good ploy: I’m not advocating getting drunk on a regular basis as that’s obviously bad for you, but it’s a good cop out for the straight dude to be able to say ‘I was drunk’ or ‘I don’t remember’ as if the thing never happened. Bless them, they feel so guilty when they’ve done something with a guy and enjoyed it.

So, you could engineer a situation where you and he are alone, having a few beers or whatever at home. You slip on a straight porn film (worth investing in at least one) to see his reaction. If he doesn’t know you’re gay you could ease in with ‘what part of this scene turns you on?’ he’ll say something like ‘the girl with the big tits’ in which case you have some work to do. But if he says ‘the blow job’ you can leap in with ‘I’ve always wanted to try that,’ or ‘I wonder what that feels like’ or dive straight in with ‘I can do that for you.’ ‘No way man,’ he will say to which you reply, ‘but we’re only having fun and anyway, we’re drunk so we won’t remember in the morning.’

If he’s really against the idea then don’t push it – things could turn nasty. But if there’s even the slightest moment of hesitation, if he has to think before saying ‘no’ then you’re probably on to a winner. Remember that he is going to be the shy and uncertain one so don’t rip your clothes off and present him with your hard cock. Start slow, seduce him, maybe simply touch his bare leg with yours, or let your arm ‘innocently’ drop next to his so you’ve made body contact. As the movie progresses you can start to pres harder and the moment he presses back you know he’s game.

That’s one scenario: the drunken one. I’ve heard of guys simply going up to their straight mate and kissing him when he’s a bit wasted, or even grabbing his cock. This way you either get a definite no by being pushed away or he is so stunned that he returns the grabbing.

Competition is good, sometimes. ‘Who’s got the biggest cock,’ is one to try. This can lead to both of you getting your dicks out and comparing sizes in a manly, macho way that both of you will love. ‘Ok, so who’s got the biggest when hard?’ is the natural second step. Watch him stroke his cock while you try not to shoot your load too early. ‘Who can come first,’ leads to a natural but quick end, ‘who can hold on the longest?’ is a good variation as is ‘who can shoot the furthest.’ But, as long as you’ve made him feel comfortable and un-pressured then he should respond to this ‘bit of fun’ by stroking his straight meat before your very eyes.

But if you want to see some real experts at it then you’ll need a little cash. Try this first time site to see how they do it and you could even copy their techniques – if you have enough cash and a camera. Here the straight boys (and they really are) are simply offered money to strip and jerk, touch each other and occasionally go the whole way. So if you can’t actually get your own straight mate to do it, click over there and watch someone else’s fantasies come true.

Read about how to throw a wild college party where you can make many str8, bi, and gay fantasies come true .

Ok, so we have all probably tried to get into a club using a fake ID or you know the drivers license borrowed from a friend that says you’re 21.  The problem is that there are so many worries you have to consider than just being turned down from the club once the door person figures out your ID is a fake.  If the ID is borrowed from a “look-a-like” real person they may not want their ID gallivanting around due to identity theft reasons in case the person looses it or it ends up in the hands of a club bouncer that is shady.  I have personally seen people at parties pass around ID’s that were taken at the door and no telling what happened with those.

I think the US liquor laws should be 18 and that clubs should not be as strict but I also wished the world was perfect and its not.  The clubs and bars are not being dick heads they just have no choice and live or die sometimes just on this one issue.  The majority of clubs get shut down just for letting minors drink or turning their heads to it and being caught by aggressive organizations such as the TABC in Texas or the highly aggressive ABC in NY .  If you work at a club you probably find it a personal assault that someone drinks inside it under 21 because it really does risk the club being shut down forever without a license to serve.  Several repeated underage drinking violations and the club is gone.

But what about the stupid things people have tried with ID’s that got them busted.  Here are some I have heard about or seen…

1. Walking in Drunk into a club when you look 16 and using an id that says you are 23.  Ok this is really stupid.  For one do not walk into a club drunk no matter what age you are.  Even if you are 21 the club can kick you out or you can be arrested for public drunk when the police come do a walk-through inside the club.  I have seen people stand in line to get in a club before and not be let in because they are too drunk and a smart bartender would not serve them anyway for their own liability.
2. Using an ID that you cannot sign the name.  If you do not have the address, birthdate, and cannot sign the name exactly as it is on the card then don’t risk using it.
3. Using an ID that rips in half.  Um yeah if you are going to use a fake license then at least make sure the damn thing doesn’t rip apart and that its quality is good enough.  You know… as good as a REAL license.  These bouncers probably bust several people every big club night using identification that is not their own so I would test it out first.
4. Not knowing anything about your state that license is printed.  Say you get a license from a state such as Ohio and someone asks you about how the Buckeye’s are doing this year and you say um “the who”… You could be in Vegas trying to use the ID but not even think they would know anything about Ohio.  Well most people who are checking identification have been around and they have moved around and know other cities.  Expect them to ask questions discretely just to see if you know anything about it.
5. Actions speak louder than words.  Know that when you walk in hesitantly into a club and look around like a bozo that they will spot you out and be suspicious.  You will stick out like Marilyn Manson walking into Midnight Mass.
6. Going up to the bar buying other underage drinkers drinks.  Not only will you get kicked out normally until you are 21 but your buddies will too.

Ok, so I made this list to be funny because I know how it is to not be able to get into a freakin club but you can read this blog and find out most of the under 21 nights in the cities we know about.  You might even be able to make deals with your local club about going in on 21 nights if you prove to them that you will not drink.  That is one hell of a VIP with lots of temptation.

Males get discriminated against more than anyone when it comes to getting into a club.  Most straight clubs make the guys enter at age 25, while girls can get in at 18.  This to me is discrimination and should not be allowed but the courts seem to allow it in most states.

Take Action

With the bad economy I think that governments might finally get desperate to lower drinking ages or loose that money in tourism to Mexico and Canada.  Write your local representatives and vote when elections come around.  Tell them it makes no sense to fight and die for a country but cannot enjoy an alcoholic beverage.

Finding a Fake ID

I wouldn’t risk it.  You might see a craigslist.org ad or someone offer you an ID but beware its almost impossible to make an ID since 9/11 and being busted for having one by the police might really land you in trouble.  If you have an older brother that looks like you then you’re a damn lucky person there might be some kind of music to be made out of that.  The government is cracking down on immigration, identity theft , and terrorism so you can only imagine the penalties for carrying around an ID that is not you.  A sibling I doubt would be much of a case for them (if you had their permission of course).

Fight for your rights biotches! But don’t get your hangout in trouble doing so…